Thursday, June 13, 2013

Drama

I changed my tic to return early to KL.Phone dah kena barred sbb bill roaming mencecah rm2046.I didn't know just whatsupping, fbooking pun kena bayor mahal gitu.Sampai klia decided to pay up all.Duit shopping HK semua byr bill roaming je.Haiyo.

Bibik pulak in Gombak.Nasib I called dulu so she had to take the cab to reach home before I do.Dahlah packed baju je without pants masa pi HK.Touch down je byk la my drama. :)

Kejap lagi catching another flight to meet up the family in Engrand.Miss them so muchlah.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Third day of friendship

Wough..heavy duty hari ni.But we learnt of Indian Street Theatre, Filipino Street Dance, Literotica in Asia and Bob Dylan.I had to tompang solat kat bilik Shahla and Sami and Samina fed us instant noodles sebab Otto kasi kita makan daun je (laparlah..mana cukup kasi lunch mcm tu kat kita...Otto buat conference style European..lunch was sandwiches and today makan salad je.But sebab dia baik dan jujur, I tak la nak bersilat.Haha)

I told Sami that we are sisters but only when I'm in trouble..(semlm tompang payung dia sbb hujan lebat).Nasib dia ni pun kelakar so she just laughed it off.

Then after the closing, Dennis and the gang ajak meeting about where to host the symposium in 2015.Sonia suka sgt KL and said I should do it.I malas la so soon..kasi chan kat India or Indonesia or Spore and Philippines lah dulu.Penat ooii.But kalau takda sgt, maybe I'll get my friends in Penang to host it.

The dinner at Jaspa was superb.Otto and wife (sangat la cantik.Rupa mcm Melayu but she's from HK,.A designer who speaks French, German, Swiss, English, Mandarin.Mana datang baka depa ni..senang je picking up languages)The food was good, companions were great, Sonia's hubby sangat lah kelakar.

Just as I was leaving, ckp kat Tim sorry tak sempat nak berbual2.He said yeah but I love your authoritarian voice.Bila la pulak tu? Must be masa I cakap we will not be apologetic about saying homosexuality is a no-no in Islam.He said dia suka my energy.Pulak? :)

Pics later.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Hong Kong Maritime Museum

We only had half day session today.I chaired a session of panelists from Barbados/Fiji, the Philippines and Brunei.Then we had readings from 2 poets and a novelist (asal from KL but migrated to Australia).Byk juga I learnt esp about rhyme and rhyming.

Then Otto took us to the fantastic Maritime Museum.Nama Islam Cheng Ho or Zhenghe (that's how he's known in the West) ialah Hajji Mahmud Shamsuddin.

We had more readings on Deck B (but I didn't sign up to read.Malu lah. :) ) We left early nak kejar waktu solat.After Asr, Mazni and I pi keluar balik sbb we had "lots" of money lagi (sebab no time to shop..tak byk mana pun) but we could not find anything nice..semua utk org kurus dan terdedah sana sini but I found a nice long scarf that went well with my new pants. :)

Besok pun no time to shop.Boringnya.Mlm dah dinner pulak.I will put maritime museum pics later.Canggih betul kapal2 yang singgah kat HK zaman dulu kala.And we found out about lanun perempuan terkaya di rantau ini. And how the West nipu Cina when bekalan silver from Africa terputus and they could not buy tea from China.So they decided to give something addictive so the Chinese would give them what they wanted.Bermulalah ketagihan candu di China. Towkay paling kaya (di dunia waktu tu!) was this Cina yang jual candu (opium dealer) dan  kurus mcm drug addict in a painting of him.

Kesimpulan: orang putih kapitalis ni jahat sepanjang zaman.Orang Asia asyik kena tipu.

Monday, June 10, 2013

Asia-Pac conference at Uni. of Hong Kong

My HK poet friend, Dr. Agnes Lam (at a dinner she belanja)
Dennis, Sonia and Sami at lunch
Sun Yat Sen studied Medicine at Uni of Hong Kong
Dinner in the city
Pond at the Uni of HK

What an exciting day at the conference.Dennis' keynote speech was deep (he spoke of his Asian journey as an Australian poet...very deep and philosophical take on culture and personal growth)

Finally got to meet Otto and Page..nice and lovely duo who put the conference together (hard work!) and meeting old friends (and new ones).Agnes belanja makan both lunch and dinner (she was so kind to teman I pi cari pants lagi at the city.Semalam tak cukup..I'm here for a few days).

Mak oii...Uni of HK ni dah 100 tahun..besar kemain..byk tangga and hills and slopes.Berpeluh2 jalan.Patut lah org HK kurus2.But HK people baik2.One guy actually stopped and asked us kita nak  ke mana cos' we were holding a map and not knowing where to go.This is masyarakat berilmu so nyata berbudi.

My paper was in the last slot.I thought people would have left by then but no...full house cos' Joanna from Mindanao was talking on Muslim women who were rebelling against the norm (ada yang lesbian, kawin dgn org Xtian yang tak mau bayar dowry, etc etc).Kononnya ke hadapan sgt la tu.I had to betulkan apa yang pincang.I ckp tak boleh dok categorise org Islam gitu...nak jadi gay ke lesbian ke, itu hak dia as individu buat pilihan tapi jgn babitkan agama sbb Islam tak berkompromi dlm hal lgbt gini.Dan kalau dia pilih jalan gitu, org lain tak leh nak judge cos' hanya Allah Maha Menghakimi tapi jgn guna nama Islam kalau nak jadi lesbian.

Mereka semua tersentak but I got a few people dtg lepas session tu dan kata it made sense.I kata mmg la make sense..ibarat kita masuk jadi ahli kelab..kelab ada peraturannya..takkan kita nak demand buat benda lain kan? Tak suka, keluarlah keahlian kelab.Gitu la ibaratnya.Lagipun kalau kita straight, ada kita nak heboh satu dunia kata ini lah cara kita? Buat kerja senyap2 lah (ini discussion belakang pentas dgn teman dari Sydney).

Tapi interesting la juga we got to discuss openly benda2 gini.Otto suka sgt my paper with my supervisee on Spore & Cambodian women writers tu.Otto ni Swiss tapi lama dah ngajar kat HK ni.Baik orgnya.Matanya mcm kolam renang.

Syukurlah my paper dah habis on first day.Besok boleh bersukaria dengar org punya.

Greetings from Hong Kong!

 Page at the opening with the Dean and Otto

Dessert at Hong Seng Restaurant

Gambar ni gambar first day conference.At lunch at the uni
with Carlotta
Otto (standing) and Dennis at the opening of the conference

I got up at 4 am semalam to catch my 9 am flight (taxi came at almost 6 am).Only to be told plane rosak..mula2 we were told no fuel.Plane kena balik ke bay isi minyak.Then after duduk dlm plane dekat sejam, disuruh turun.We were given lunch vouchers.Ate at DOME yang ramai org stranded.We were the last few to board the plane.Lantak kaorang...(but the MAS guy told us takpa..makan la slow2, they'd wait for us).

Rupa2nya small screw kena ganti.I takut cos' we would be flying on the same plane.Biasa they would tukar the plane.My friend said MAS is in crisis.Hutang byk, kapalterbang buruk.Hanya Allah yang menyelamatkan. Alhamdulillah we arrived safely at almost Maghrib time (sempat Asr though).

Only to find out while I was packing for two trips ..I packed only blouses on my HK trip! (gamaknya masa I packed my slacks/pants tu I ingat I masuk suitcase HK).It was already 8.30 pm and the hotel was not close to any mall except the Macau ferry mall (ala2 Puduraya gitu but very few clothes shops) Yang ada sama ada sold pants for tiny people or too expensive.

On the way back, we saw little shops yang jual baju.We walked back from the hotel after the cab driver dropped us (cab drivers here are very honest-lah!).I found a beautiful long skirt and a stretchable pants (muda bebenor le nanti pakai macam ni...what to do)

Definitely poems are coming out from these experiences..MAS planes, wrongly packed suitcases (tajuknya dah ada "looking for the other body")

Nik pun tak kurang ceritanya di Manchester....he missed the train connection sebab dah sampai malam in Manchester.Nak tidur kat hotel, semua dah penuh.In the end, he had to take the cab from Manchester to Sheffield.Nasib tak mahal. 65 pounds je (well..don't start converting-lah).

Satu travel ni yang seronok, banyak cerita. :)

Note: We kat atas tu means Carlotta (my friend from Arizona who had been staying with me for almost a week), me and.Mazni, my supervisee (my co-presenter).


Saturday, June 08, 2013

Vacation

Nik just left for the UK to spend time with Z. First time kita pi asing2.I still have work and can only join him much later.

It feels horrible.I have become too dependent on him that I worry about travelling alone nanti.Terok, kan? Nik would check everything for me..passport, duit tukar, ubat, kunci bag, etc etc.On my own..ada la benda yg tertinggal sana sini nanti..I hope not.He had kept all I needed in places I know.

Prof. A rang to ask if I didn't mind being nominated for a post under his office.Aiyoo...I said after Sept-lah.I have planned NOT to take up any admin post. Dah penat and I miss teaching undergrads.But he said I would be doing things I'd enjoy...poetry...culture...talking..(haha).

I said nak propose nama no prob. but tak tau No. 1 setuju ke tak.I know she wanted me to head another Culture Centre tapi I wanted to finish up a couple of unfinished jobs and said hang on dulu.

I told Prof A even if I don't hold the post, he could always call me to help out.Makcik dah tua...makcik takut tak larat je nak oii.Kalu setakat nak organise events tu, sukalah.:)

We'll see how.My plate is quite full with book projects and NGO work.

Wednesday, June 05, 2013

My Ayurvedic treatment

Dah 2 tahun I tak jumpa my Ayurvedic doctor.Hari ni lepas mesyuarat projek antologi puisi/cerpen ASEAN di Anjung Bistari, I balik ke office kejap.

Then cabut pi berubat.Dah 6 hari limping.Mula2 ubat low dosage.Bila dah betul dosagenya, tak hilang2 juga the swell around my ankle (uric acid kesan makan ubat mcm2 after the d&c rasanya). My Ayurvedic guy said ini bone spur bukan uric acid.Jenoh pulak I nak convince him it's uric acid.Haha.Kalau bone spur, takkan lah tiba2 kan?

Anyway, I went for the hot oil treatment.Syaratnya kena buat 7 hari berturut2 but whr got time.I'm travelling soon.But I asked if I could do it for 3 days.Ayurvedic doc said OK.

Nasib yg tukang urut tu perempuan.She's from Kerala.Been here 7 years dan fasih ckp English.Nmpk letih dia.Kerja round the clock.So she did my ankle.Urut lembut.Syok wough..minyak panas berherbal.Boleh ketagih ni.Better than spa!Bsk Susheela kata kita boleh buat lagi waktu sama.

Alhamdulillah...ada leganya.

It was nice meeting old friends at Anjung Bistari tadi.Senang kerja dgn mereka.Keputusan kami buat dgn cepat.Projek mesti siap Nov.Memilih 3 cerpen dan 6 puisi sepanjang kurun 20 bukan mudah.Msia ramai penulis berbakat.Akhirnya kami nekad akan membuat antologi lain yg lebih inclusive dan dpt masuk ramai2.Semoga dipermudahkan.

Saturday, June 01, 2013

All tears

These days if I go to weddings,I'd be in tears most of the time. Satu, cos' parents lose their child to a marriage.Dua, you are humbled by the union.

Today was one of my friends' son's wedding.He went through so much...2 weddings yg tak menjadi.Today my fren said the son said harap2 kali ini menjadi.Kesian, kan? He's the type who would give up a calon isteri if the mom does not restu.Muka bdk ni mmg muka syurga.I was in tears thinking about murninya hati bdk ini...giving up all loves of his life just so he gets his mom's restu.

Akhirnya  Allah beri dia jodoh yg bkn sahaja cantik, cerdik tetapi juga beriman (it so happens, the bride is the daughter of one of my friends of Matric days.Yam and hubby memang terkenal kuat pegangan agamanya.You'd see how berkat their family is).Ohh...it's so touching to see how great Allah is! I'm so happy for everyone and wish them much baraqah and blessing.

The reception will be during the time me and family are away so that's why we were invited to this akad..basically meant for family je.I'm glad I was able to attend.I enjoyed the wedding tazkirah.Jurunikah kata kita kalau dah kawin, buat cara dah kawin.Jgn berkelakuan mcm org bujang...buat apa-apa tak bersama.Also, jgn materialistic dan terima pasangan kita seadanya cos' takda manusia yg perfect.Kalau isteri tak pandai memasak, mengemas rumah, jgn mudah sgt nak ceraikan dia.

Simpoi kan? But it rings life.I made new friends.One young (friendly) Datin said ohhh...anak saya next year baru nak pi UK (after she asked me whr my kids were).Course apa? I tanya.

Medic, she said.
Oh cool.Where?
Cambridge University.

So happy to knw we have many intelligent young Muslims.I hope they will return to serve the country.

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Almost done

Went to send docos to one of the clients semalam.A good thing I brought Sue, my Thai intern.She's so good to work with.I also have M from Jeddah.Sue said Saudi government kasi anak buah dia RM6k sebulan as their scholarship.M ni ada motor besar he bought for RM70k kata Sue.But M pun boleh harap.They help me a lot when Zul ain't around.

Sue and I stopped at KLCC to buy a gift for Widad who just got married.I'll see Kak Ani later this week or early next week to pass on the gift.

Prof Zein dropped by and we had a good laugh over visa probs we seem to have.Singapore scrutinises Sudanese passports walhal Zein has been travelling to Spore over the last 10 years to teach  there.Terrorists do not come from the Sudan.They are the most educated and gentle Muslims one can get.I suruh M pi ambik ptg ni dgn motor besar dia.Hopefully siap.Zein has to fly to Kota Singa on Friday or Sat morning.

The book is almost done. Gayah and I worked late last night with Tharkundas on the phone.He's good with words! No wonder he makes a good lawyer.Very humble too.Lega now one book project is out of the way.Two to go.Possibly 3 if the translation meeting I'm having with the gang next week decides that we are coming out with a book.Haiyo.I hope not.

Have a good week ahead you.

Friday, May 24, 2013

Holiday

Sal & family left for Turkey today.Mak flew to JB, carrying her passport with the intention of crossing over the Causeway I'm sure. :) They all deserve time away.Ours will be soon InsyaAllah.

Went to send my kain2 for baju raya.No choice cos' the lady said baju kurung biasa je boleh...no fancy2.I pun dah tak ter-fancy dah tua2 ni.Asalkan selesa dipakai, dah.

Next week will be busy gila, collecting cheques and attending meetings.Let's hope so and so will support our event and give us some grant.

Have a good weekend folks.Today all I did was melepak with Nik.

Monday, May 20, 2013

Least expected


If you follow Radio Ikim, between 8.10 am and 8.20 am, they would play the doa dhuha about rezeki dipohon keluar kiri kanan, atas bawah etc.I love listening to it (I think by UNIC) sbb syahdu sgt.

Today, that rezeki from arah tak disangka came.I had a big quarrel with my mom...dah 2 hari dingin.I think it's my hormonal imbalance thingy...this peri menopausal thingy is turning me into a monster when rubbed the wrong way.Then I get tired being angry with so many things.

So I doa that I do not become anak durhaka and that Allah would not uji me with what I could not handle.I hope Allah would understand my monster came out cos' of my hormones...

So I worked mcm biasa.Then the phone rang.Someone said my short story (first published in Mingguan Malaysia in 2004) was chosen to be one of the texts for Form 4 Sastera and would be used in Msian schools.I was like what? Biar betul! "Perspektif" read in 2013 is still relevant.Mcm future writing la pulak! But I said alhamdulillah..it cheered me up.

As a show of gratitude, I bought my mom laksa Johor and daging dendeng.We made up (Bibik had pujuk her and my sister and niece rang her up...it doesn't take much for my mom to be happy.I think she got depressed cos' no one else showed her love.I was her only hope and I was mean.Kesian, kan?)

One day, I'm going to write about this mother-daughter relationship in a novel.

Friday, May 17, 2013

Wangi kasturi

G and I drove to Shah Alam to meet with lawyer Tharkundas and we dined with Tan Sri Ani Arope.T brought chicken and mutton bryani from his son's famous restaurant.I loved the salad (raita...just add yoghurt to chopped tomatoes, cucumbers, onions, coriander leaves).We discussed the article which might have legal implications.T will edit bits of wht ain't right.

Then G wanted to pick up Aishah's pet at DU.We started telling each other ghost stories...kalu malam je, this will be my fav...cerita hantu.Lepas tu I naik takut cos' after dropping G off at her home, I kena drive sorang2.Mcm2 in my mind...hantu rambut Afro kat belakang my seat..(Manan is spotting this hairdo on his fb profile), makcik nenek kebayan...etc etc.

G was telling me about her bro in law who died after solat subuh semasa bermesra-mesra with the wife..he hugged her after solat, told her he loved her and just went dlm her dakapan.Wow.Semasa mandi jenazah, bau harum kasturi that everyone started talking.Aruah masa hidup tak byk ckp.

I baru ckp dgn Dr. Riza 2-3 hari lepas psl her story jenazah seharum kasturi...semua jenis tak cakap byk.We had vowed not to talk so much. :))

I am done filtering IYSFC entries...ngam2 50 entries from 12 institutions.Alhamdulillah.When we first started, we were so afraid that there would not be enough entries.I thought if we got 10 pun dah syukur.We need only 3 winners.A few entries made me cry...so touching...stories of school bullies, victims of child abuse, cerita budak cacat..tak kurang cerita bdk lelaki akil baligh...haha..I thought that was so funny...story about a boy coming of age.


Today I gaduh with my laundry man.My sheepskin shrunk.I told him they had tertukar my fluffy rug with someone else's so ugly and dirty.Even the two gals manning the shop said they remember mine was nicer.I told the guy, Sabtu nanti sambung gaduh. I was too busy to exert myself over some silly looking rug (his, not mine)

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Mother's Day

I worked over the weekends.But had time to get my mom a fruit hamper.Gave Bibik a purple rose too for Hari Ibu.I think she went teary a bit.Like me, she has a single child.

My mom yg kelihatan depressed cheered up after I gave her her basket of buah2an..both fresh and canned plus some cookies...maybe Kak Ngah, me and Nik will go out and dine with her lepas Maghrib.Sal balik Tapah so she may not be able to join us.

Rita and Farah pun dpt flowers cos' I figured they would not have time to go to the florist so early.Wrong.Farah punya florist dah start berjual jam 8 am.Rita mmg tak sempat so she was thankful I tlg beli her mom stg nice. :)

I don't mind if we have gone commercial on this day.Biarlah.Mak kita suka dapat bunga dan hadiah.:))

Selamat menyambut Hari Ibu.Jgn fikirkan asal usulnya kerana yg penting niat kita meraikan Ibu kita dan betapa Allah begitu menyukai perbuatan menggembirakan ibu kita.

Part 2

We wanted to dine at Meatworks but semua fully booked.In the end, we went to the Curve's new Royal Bintang Hotel (the one with ice skating rink).Nik had dined there and said it's not too bad.I had sirloin steak (sedap giler), the rest had grilled salmon and lamb shanks.My mom had forgotten she had salmon before so she asked mana nasinya? :))

But she thoroughly enjoyed her salmon, rice or no rice.In the car I heard her laughing with Bibik over this: ya, mana saya biasa makan ikan sahaja...mcm kucing.

Nik and I pun tompang ketawa.Nik said one of his friends's dad masa first time mkn KFC pun didn't want to eat the chicken till the rice tiba.And the powers that be think all Malaysians are equal and shoud be thankful for the development they brought since Independence.

Saturday, May 11, 2013

Happy birthday Z



Z turns 21 on May 11.

I still remember the trauma of childbirth.And the joy of seeing little Z. Sucking her thumb still.Congrats said the childless gynae and I heard her high heeled shoes clicking away. A thankless job round the clock but I'm sure the rewards are countless.

Z, happy 21st bday.May Allah continue to shower you with rahmah, mercy and all the good things in dunia and akhirat.

We love you mucho. 

Thursday, May 09, 2013

Back at work

I did a presentation for the Kull today (Noraini had to ring me up to remind).Susahnya staff-less macam ni (there's only my intern at the office this morning).

So I had to sell myself at the presentation: our achievements since the inception of APC/CERDAS, our industrial ties, our social impact, money made, our fame (tak malu pun).Alhamdulillah Datuk Zuhdi is a reasonable Dean.He agreed to push for a permanent staff and I asked that my Coordinators are retained (whoever takes over CERDAS will need support).

Matin (my Canadian-Muslim friend who won first place in the IWFF script writing competition) gave me some ole-ole from Malacca (I think from Malacca).Their short film is currently being shot, I think. Zaki (of Jejak Rasul) wants to use CERDAS office for one of the scenes (nak tak pelakon tambahan? haha).

Sometimes rasa banyak sangat benda nak buat that you do not know where to begin!

Kena cadangkan cara lain pengundian

Ikuti pertukaran message saya dan teman saya di Columbus, Ohio Amerika Syarikat:

Evan:Is that a photo of a line of voters waiting to cast their ballots? If so, then it would seem that the entrenched powers in Malaysia have been studying the American art of voter suppression.

Me:No Evan.This is the post election rally/gathering to protest against election fraud (as claimed by the opposition party) Just google up Malaysian General Election news for further details

Evan:I'm glad to see people mobilized over the issue of fraud. When we exposed the genuine fraud in the 2004 election we scarcely mustered a few thousand people, nationally. And, now that John Kerry is our Secretary of State he has the gall, and the lack of a sense or irony, to demand that Venezuela conduct a full, nation-wide hand re-count of their paper ballots. He never asked for a recount in the U .S. - not even in Ohio. the Green Party had to demand (and pay for) that recount (which was meaningless, anyway, because in Kerry 's America all of the ballots are electronic and unverifiable. in Mexico, where there was also ample evidence of election fraud in the election prior to this most recent one, and Calderon took office before any recounts had been conducted Obrador supporters demonstrated in Mexico City -2 Million strong!  You may have misgivings (you, collectively, in Malaysia, I mean) about the effectiveness of demonstrating and demanding clean elections, but be grateful that you're not awash in ignorance and apathy as we are in the U.S.

Me:Perhaps we should be thinking hard of an alternative how we elect our leaders...the ballots do not seem to work or subject to abuse....worldwide.The Philippines will have theirs soon.That would be interesting to watch as well.

Evan:Venezuela has the best solution so far. When we were opposing the introduction of highly vulnerable and tamper-prone electronic voting systems in the U.S. we consulted with experts. I came up with an idea for a system wherein the electronic voting machines printed a paper ballot that the voter would verify in the presence of an election supervisor. Two experts told me that my idea was the "only" nearly fool-proof model that could work, but the prevailing wisdom at the time was to support an all-paper system with hand-counting. That was the second best option. Venezuela has a system in place that closely resembles my idea, and they have improved upon that by adding an automatic random audit requirement of more than 50% of their precincts. In Ohio our random audit is only 3% and it only consists of running the memory cartridges from the machines in 3%of the precincts through the same electronic tabulators once more. There are no checks against the tallies being altered at various points along the way as the electronic information from the tabulators travels, by wire, first to a Republican-owned company in Republican-owned Tennessee and then to the Secretary of State. Even the 3%audit is beatable if the machines themselves are programmed with an algorithm that commands them to display correct results for, say, the first 10% of the count, and, thereafter, to generate a fictitious tally favoring one particular candidate. I proposed that scenario to the owner and chief programmer of an election systems company that ran the voting in 1/3 of Ohio's counties and his face grew pale and he started to stutter. That's not "proof", of course, but it does cause one to wonder.

Me:Wough...I'll fwd this to some friends and see if we can propose this to our Election Commission which is parked under the Prime Minister's Office (don't laugh, please).

Evan:If you can find the Carter commission's report on the Venezuelan election system it spells it all out quite simply and clearly. Canada uses an all-paper hand-counted system that's nearly as good, but they accomplish that by having much smaller precincts and many more of them. Venezuela's system allows them to have U.S.-sized precincts, but to achieve the same accuracy and proficiency ad Canada.

Monday, May 06, 2013

A day after a battle was lost

I slept early on the evening of Election Day.Access to info of wins/losses was difficult.Some webs were down.Inconsistencies of reports, PR said most states tumbang, BN said it was winning big.Finally when an editor friend called to say Kedah tumbang, Kelantan hampir kalah, bla bla..I terus masuk tidur.

I woke up early thinking hari dah siang.Checked my fb and other online sources...ramai dah berkabung (which amused me a bit...I know it is frustrating...we had gone all out for a clean electoral system and we did experience irregularities...I saw how senior citizens were kept waiting dgn alasan yang pelbagai.Made noise and got someone to help this old Chinese couple to go in and vote early.Macam2lah). Then the irregularities of using pens/pencils...helped a few friends voting in Kedah and Perak to lodge a report with SPR and SUHAKAM ...ini semua tanggungjawab kita to pastikan integriti sistem pengundian kita tidak tercemar)

I am proud of the GE13 results.Kalah tapi menang.Hanya melalui satu kempen pilihanraya, rakyat pelbagai kaum bersatu menentang benda jahat...penipuan, rasuah, penyelewengan.Yg paling sweet, non Muslims menerima PAS dan mula berfikiran terbuka tentang hudud.Anak2 muda berkreatif di dalam Bahasa Melayu terutama anak-anak muda Cina.First time I dengar anak-anak muda India di Kelantan kecek Kelantan saying "Kito takdo masalah apo-apo..kito mace adik beradik kat sini..takdo kato kito ni India ke gapo."

Waaahhhh....

And while some friends could not hide their disappointments, others are more positive and encouraging, wanting to work harder for a better and just Malaysia.

I believe Allah will not abandon those who want to do good and it does not have to be from one party only.Yang penting nawaitu kita.

Saturday, May 04, 2013

Undi anda tidak lagi rahsia

As friends and relatives berasap-asap kempen who not to vote, nyata undi masing-masing bukan lagi rahsia. I am quite surprised at how afraid some of us are of change. Usually it is those who are so pro ketuanan Melayu and so afraid that Islam in this country will be undermined should a new government is formed.Either that or mereka sudah byk 'termakan' budi dgn projek2 kerajaan dan kemudahan yang diberikan.

Nothing is free OK? We deserve better.Bukan tidak bersyukur but at the rate we are going...kita agak kebelakang compared to negara- negara lain.Don't compare with Bangladesh ke Mynmar ke. Compare dgn Spore, Japan, South Korea or Taiwan. Even OK to compare with Indonesia in many aspects.

And I don't understand this mindset..kalau kita berlainan undi, kita telah dikira berpecah belah dan diseru bersatu. Penat je belajar tinggi-tinggi if you think perbedaan pendapat is not Islamic.

Apapun, selamat mengundi dan semoga Allah selamatkan negara kita dan kita akan terus makmur dan aman.

Friday, May 03, 2013

Of tahlils and mournings

Tonight will be the final tahlil for Mama. Nik's siblings are coping well.Faisal and Lina would visit the grave sebelah siang. Some snippets of conversations with Nayli:

Me:Where is Wan?
Nayli: She's gone on a vacation under the sands.

Nayli:Where is Wan?
Nayli's mom: We have to put her in a box
Nayli: No!She cannot stay in a box!

By 3rd day:

Me:Where is Wan?
Nayli:Wan dalam kuh-bur.

By now, reality has sunked in.Even with Nayli.
Z was kept informed of all the happenings at home.Today she gets a bit more homesick than usual but our chats were still dominated by the election news.Lama2 bosan juga, yah?


Wednesday, May 01, 2013

Mama is no more, alfatihah

Nik called me at home saying Mama passed away at 6 pm semalam but when I saw him he said the doc thought mungkin Mama died dah sehari (but how do you explain the heart beat? Doctor ni...biar betul).

Faisal yg selalu jaga Ma was by her side but he also tak sedar when the heart totally stopped.Tengok2 dah zero.Nik was outside the ward.The rest pun.Gitulah kehendak Allah.I langsong tak berguna.Nak pi kedai bunga to buy some roses for the bunga rampai funeral pun I tak larat.So Bibik and I made do with whatever we had in the garden.

Then we memunggah my carpet for the tahlil.Nasib la my Bibik ni besar kuderatnya.Boleh angkat sorang (I helped halfway...if my mom knows..siap! She said d&c ni mcm org beranak juga..tak leh angkat berat, makan kena jaga)

Terasa Mama takda.
More later.Pagi ni sibuk with persiapan funeral.