Funeral

Azah text-ed me early in the morn to say her mil passed away last night.I had thought of calling her up and asked about her mom semalam actually.

Mula2 nak pi dgn Nik lunch hours but after exchanging sms-es, found out that I could be of some use to Azah and her family if I helped buat bunga rampai.Daun pandan I habis dibunuh Bibik..so had to get some from Mama's place (pun habis nak mati..took home some anak pokok to tanam lagi..nanti Z nak bertunang, senang) Pi kat kubur nak cari air mawar (usually they sell there but takda..I guess musim raya je ada jual).Pi kedai bunga nak beli some colourful roses...petals dia layu mcm hapa je..so I got fresh flowers.

Drove to Jalan Gurney soonest Azah text-ed me the add.Mak oii...ramainya orang and parking was crazy..berapa kali I tawaf (I tawaf sampai Nik pun dah sampai but I nak balik pun Nik tawaf lagi! I told him to park where I parked).

I have not met Rauf's mom in person but nengok Rauf yang tinggi budi bahasanya..I guess she did a great job with the children esp the sons.So my yassin and fatihah were to thank her for helping this world be a better place through akhlaq mulia anak-anak dia (tak tau nak sakitkan hati orang, sentiasa menolong orang, tidak kedekut etc).It got me thinking...when I die, ada tak org tak kenal nak sedekahkan I fatihah dan yassin hanya kerana I telah lahirkan anak yang berbudi bahasa berakhlaq mulia? Seram I memikirkannya but I doa Z akan menjadi manusia yang disayangi ramai kerana akhlaqnya..Kita ini adalah siapa ibubapa kita.Bagaimana mereka mendidik kita.

Jika tidak mahu dihakimi, jadilah manusia mulia agar anak-anak kita juga disayangi orang.Jika orang sayang, apatah lagi Tuhan yang menjadikan.