Sunday, December 30, 2012

End of year blues

Life was great with kenduris, spas and possibilities of flying to exotic places to end the year.And we adopted Nuruah for the whole afternoon and spoilt him rotten.

Then the bomb dropped.

Nik's mom sakit luarbiasa.So after Asr, we rushed to her plc but Lina and Faisal had taken her to the hospital.When we went to see, she was already like in a deep sleep.

As the night wore on, docs kata the condition worsened and she was observed kat ICU and would be put on life support.Stroke with blood clot in the brain.

I balik and had some sleep but Nik and siblings semua tak tidur semlm (now he's catching up with some before going bck to the hospital doing his shift).

She is a nice mom in law.Does not interfere, a shoulder to cry on and would be on my side when Nik does me wrong.I think because of her kindness, we often take her for granted.Not enough time is spent with her although we live close to each other. Syukur alhamdulillah, of late, Nik spends more time with her..often suapkan mak dia makan (she was bedridden for shoulder dislocation sebab terjatuh kat bilik air).Nik yg uruskan a physiotherapist dtg twice a week to care for her physio needs.Semlm before the collapse, she was better..dah ada selera makan, etc so we went out bersukaria kat kenduri one relative, thinking she would be resting and needing some quiet.The household is full of people but except for the maid and mak yah, everyone was away for an hour or two.When my sis in law came to feed her afternoon tea, Mama dah tak berapa nak sedar and giving sign language je.

Pls recite al fatihah and wish her well.Hajjah Nik Maimunah.

2 comments:

Mawar said...

Kak F
Semoga bonda mertua Kak F dalam peliharaan dan kasih sayang Allah.

Faridah said...

Mawar: Terima kasih di atas doa.Dengan izin Allah, dia tunjuk some good progress semalam dan life support tak perlu.The power of doa! Nanti saya blog pasal how the impossible is reversed melalui doa (cerita dari kawan saya)