Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Macam nilah dunia...

Nik and I were saddened by a piece of news on a close friend's fb wall.Dia dan isterinya telah bercerai.We attended their wedding reception in the USA and thought what a lovely couple they were.

I mcm biasa, cuba jadi orang tengah..kot2 mereka boleh kembali bersama.Yang lelaki cerita sebab musabab.Complicated sikitlah nak berbaik balik.Yang perempuan cuma ucap terima kasih di atas kata2 baik I.Susah kalau ada pihak ke tiga dan byk rasa rendah diri dlm salah seorang pasangan ni.Yang itu kena address dulu..perasaan rendah diri itu.Yang satu kena la cuba memahami

Tapi kalau pasangan kita terdedah kpd penyakit kelamin melalui pihak ketiga ni, baiklah tinggalkan.Cari yang bersih.

But it is still a sad thing for us to know.Allah lebih mengetahui.

Macam nilah dunia, part 2:

As I was sipping my hot milo at the kedai mamak, saw In Pursuit of Happiness movie.It was that part when the church choir was singing, "O  Lord, do not move the mountain...but give us strength to climb it...cos' you promised to meet us in the world of prayers..O Lord, do not move the mountain, give us strength to work around it."

Waaahhhh...cantik doa tu! :)) Mountain was translated as "rintangan" in the Malay subtitle.Betul juga yah? God would never put a mountain before us/on us, if it was not meant to test our faith in Him.Why ask for it to be moved away? Just pray for strength.Am I getting personal here? No...this is a general reminder for all.I thought that was a very positive doa.

Enjoy your day.Hari ni takda Ma'thurat sebab I kena food poisoning but the vomitting and diarrhea have eased up a lot, alhamdulillah(I loved the female doc at the clinic near my plc.Baik la dia.Kita boleh gelak2 lagi dlm keadaan I lembik longlai tu. Haha)

Macam nilah dunia, part 3:

Kalau Zul ada, he would accuse me of trying to save space. :) But I need to record a couple of things here.

Mamun dropped by to say hello (with wife and Latif). Ingat juga dia kat I.I mcm biasa, tak ingat (sgt memalukan..walhal dah puas makan minum dan naik small aircraft dgn dia and geng masa lawatan ke Dhaka dulu) I mcm biasa ingat dia dtg nakkan pertolongan of sorts. Terok, kan? Ni sebab kalau kat KL, gitu lah.Org dtg hanya bila nak benda.Walhal dia dtg cuma nak menyambung silrahturrahim.And we agreed to network with other alumni chapters.

Lepas tu Dr. Nora rang to say S dah meninggal semalam (our mutual colleague since Matric days.S was from Burma and was our neighbour for a long time in Subang Jaya..was the first to visit me after I lahirkan Zafirah..him and Najmi.Hi S, maafkan saya sebab tak sempat telefon sebelum nafas terakhir mu.Semoga dicucuri rahmah.Al fatihah.Dia meninggal di Burma.Bapanya dulu Menteri Kehakiman sebelum junta took over.Tapi S sgt la humble.Selalu org ingat dia jual roti canai).

His story is a sad story.Kasihnya dia terhadap the only child he had..yang kemudian byk memberinya kesedihan walaupun anaknya berjaya dari segi material.He would always carry her letter with him (placed next to his heart). Anak dia dah jadi rakyat NZ.Gaduh dgn bapaknya kes kawin dgn laki yang enggan masuk Islam.Maknya dah lama denounced Islam.Na'uzubillah.

Tapi masih belum terlambat utk kita doakan agar anak S ni pulang ke pangkal asal.I think satu hari dia akan menyesal but we hope dia akan jadi Muslim yang baik dan mendoakan ayahnya.

2 comments:

ubuntu_linux said...

salam prof, so sorry to hear that. tapi "s" ni brother salim khan of celpad tu ke? sorry if i get wrong. tapi sedih nya cerita tu..macam2 dunia akhir zaman. semoga kita diberi ketetapan untuk istiqamah :)

Faridah said...

Ubuntu: i tak mau la be so obvious but you read my posting on iium alumni fb,kan? Sama2lah kita berdoa bkn shj utk dia but anak dia supaya kembali beriman.Kita pun must pray for ourselves agar akhir kita pun diredhoi Allah, mati dlm Islam,iman yg kental bkn dlm kita tengah buat maksiat dan kufur.